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Cake day: August 23rd, 2023
  • Midnight Wolf@lemmy.worldtomemes@lemmy.world•Times have changedEnglish
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    13 days ago

    I didn’t say ‘don’t have kids’, but you must realize that you are forcing a being into the world that may not see things as you do, regardless of what/how/why, and assuming they will follow an assumed plan that you have carved out is… controlling another being, in any capacity, that isn’t 100% concentual, is bad in my view. Hard stop, no exceptions. If that is ‘I don’t want to be your nurse in old age’, or ‘I loathe that you have created me’ or anything in between or beyond, is irrelevant.

  • Midnight Wolf@lemmy.worldtomemes@lemmy.world•Times have changedEnglish
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    13 days ago

    Making a life-changing decision - for more than just yourself - on the assumption that they will want anything to do with you in 40 years is, how do I put this… stupid as fuck?

    And that assumes they also are able-bodied, of sound mind and judgement, can care for any others financially…

    My folks are getting up there in age, and I’m not getting any younger myself. They are religious, I’m not. I’m LGBT, they are bigoted. I can understand the big picture of caring for others through community, they don’t. They are still very capable and mobile, I’m disabled. What side of the fence do you think I’m on?

    They could have just used a fucking condom. They should have. They didn’t.