why do allow a romantic partner to set boundaries on the potential relationships I could form with others
it also just hurt to imagine him being with someone else and preferring them over me
My problem is exclusivity being the standard or default requirement for almost everyone, in many case just because that’s what everyone else is doing.
This deletes, say 95% of the population. It’s already a very improbable thing to hook up with someone compatible and have that requirement, unless you have a very high “hook up attempt” rate than you can just forget the whole thing as unrealistic, which I did a long time ago.
It’s just not going to happen, no interested, the terms are unacceptable I’m not even going to waste any time trying.
My problem is exclusivity being the standard or default requirement for almost everyone, in many case just because that’s what everyone else is doing.
This deletes, say 95% of the population. It’s already a very improbable thing to hook up with someone compatible and have that requirement, unless you have a very high “hook up attempt” rate than you can just forget the whole thing as unrealistic, which I did a long time ago.
It’s just not going to happen, no interested, the terms are unacceptable I’m not even going to waste any time trying.